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Beyond “Lots of Hugs and Kisses”: Expressions of Parental Love From Parents and Their Young Children in Two‐Parent, Financially Stable Families
dc.contributor.authorSabey, Allen K.
dc.contributor.authorRauer, Amy J.
dc.contributor.authorHaselschwerdt, Megan L.
dc.contributor.authorVolling, Brenda
dc.date.accessioned2018-09-04T20:08:50Z
dc.date.available2019-11-01T15:10:32Zen
dc.date.issued2018-09
dc.identifier.citationSabey, Allen K.; Rauer, Amy J.; Haselschwerdt, Megan L.; Volling, Brenda (2018). "Beyond “Lots of Hugs and Kisses”: Expressions of Parental Love From Parents and Their Young Children in Two‐Parent, Financially Stable Families." Family Process 57(3): 737-751.
dc.identifier.issn0014-7370
dc.identifier.issn1545-5300
dc.identifier.urihttps://hdl.handle.net/2027.42/145543
dc.publisherBasic Books
dc.publisherWiley Periodicals, Inc.
dc.subject.other家长‐儿童关系
dc.subject.other爱
dc.subject.other定性研究
dc.subject.other亲职
dc.subject.otherLove
dc.subject.otherParent–Child Relationships
dc.subject.otherParenting
dc.subject.otherQualitative Research
dc.subject.otherrelaciones entre padres e hijos
dc.subject.otheramor
dc.subject.othercrianza
dc.subject.otherinvestigación cualitativa
dc.titleBeyond “Lots of Hugs and Kisses”: Expressions of Parental Love From Parents and Their Young Children in Two‐Parent, Financially Stable Families
dc.typeArticleen_US
dc.rights.robotsIndexNoFollow
dc.subject.hlbsecondlevelPublic Health
dc.subject.hlbsecondlevelSociology
dc.subject.hlbtoplevelSocial Sciences
dc.description.peerreviewedPeer Reviewed
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dc.identifier.doi10.1111/famp.12327
dc.identifier.sourceFamily Process
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