Learning the rules of the game: The role of generic “you” and “we” in shaping children’s interpretations of norms
dc.contributor.author | Orvell, Ariana | |
dc.contributor.author | Elli, Giulia | |
dc.contributor.author | Umscheid, Valerie | |
dc.contributor.author | Simmons, Ella | |
dc.contributor.author | Kross, Ethan | |
dc.contributor.author | Gelman, Susan A. | |
dc.date.accessioned | 2023-01-11T16:27:18Z | |
dc.date.available | 2024-02-11 11:27:16 | en |
dc.date.available | 2023-01-11T16:27:18Z | |
dc.date.issued | 2023-01 | |
dc.identifier.citation | Orvell, Ariana; Elli, Giulia; Umscheid, Valerie; Simmons, Ella; Kross, Ethan; Gelman, Susan A. (2023). "Learning the rules of the game: The role of generic “you” and “we” in shaping children’s interpretations of norms." Child Development (1): 159-171. | |
dc.identifier.issn | 0009-3920 | |
dc.identifier.issn | 1467-8624 | |
dc.identifier.uri | https://hdl.handle.net/2027.42/175512 | |
dc.description.abstract | A critical skill of childhood is learning social norms. We examine whether the generic pronouns “you” and “we,” which frame information as applying to people in general rather than to a specific individual, facilitate this process. In one pre-registered experiment conducted online between 2020 and 2021, children 4- to 9-year-old primarily living in the midwestern U.S. (N = 146, 75 girls, 71 boys, Mage = 7.14, SD = 1.69, 82% White) interpreted actions described with generic pronouns (vs. “I”) as normatively correct and selected the speaker who used generic pronouns as the rule-follower, particularly when generic pronouns were presented first. There were no significant effects of age. These results illustrate how generic pronouns influence how children discern unfamiliar norms and form interpersonal judgments. | |
dc.publisher | McGraw-Hill | |
dc.publisher | Wiley Periodicals, Inc. | |
dc.title | Learning the rules of the game: The role of generic “you” and “we” in shaping children’s interpretations of norms | |
dc.type | Article | |
dc.rights.robots | IndexNoFollow | |
dc.subject.hlbsecondlevel | Psychology | |
dc.subject.hlbtoplevel | Social Sciences | |
dc.description.peerreviewed | Peer Reviewed | |
dc.description.bitstreamurl | http://deepblue.lib.umich.edu/bitstream/2027.42/175512/1/cdev13846_am.pdf | |
dc.description.bitstreamurl | http://deepblue.lib.umich.edu/bitstream/2027.42/175512/2/cdev13846.pdf | |
dc.identifier.doi | 10.1111/cdev.13846 | |
dc.identifier.source | Child Development | |
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